Do you know what works and what doesn’t when it comes to making a man
feel an intense level of attraction for you?
Think about the last time you dated a great guy who got distant all of a
sudden. He stopped calling as often or expressed doubt about whether or
not he was “ready” for a relationship.
If you’re like a lot of women who struggle at this point in a relationship and
wonder what’s wrong with some men, then you probably tried very hard to
convince the man you felt the right connection with that you were a great
catch. You might have done things for him. You might have bought him
gifts. You might have poured out your heart to him in the hopes that he
would let his guard down and confess his true feelings for you, too.
The reality is that while these “strategies” with men are common things lots
of women do, rarely do they actually work out. That’s because there’s a
secret about men that a lot of women don’t get:
If a man isn’t feeling that gut-level attraction for you, any attempts to
convince him to like you and feel things for you will only backfire.
On the other hand, the women who men find irresistible have certain
“attitudes” that draw a man’s attention and interest easily with little or no
effort. You can think of these “attitudes” as what you are saying to a man
without you saying a word. Your internal emotions, your body language,
and your tone of voice all communicate your “attitude” at a deep level.
Now, these attitudes can have a man craving as much quality time as he
can get with you, to where he feels positively addicted to being with you.
Here are three attitudes that are subtly irresistible to a man:
Irresistible Attitude #1: “I don’t let a man determine what I will have in
my love life.”
This kind of woman won’t settle for a man who isn’t giving her what she
wants and needs, emotionally. Men respect this at a deep level, and either
become engaged and inspired by this to want to be with you…or turn the
other way if they really aren’t looking for what you want. It’s a great
“qualifier” that also happens to make the right man feel ATTRACTED to
you.
Irresistible Attitude #2: “I’d leave a man before I’d let him ruin my life.”
This woman won’t stay in a relationship that’s abusive, degrading or
morally questionable. She also won’t put up with bad behavior from a man.
Integrity and trust are important to her, and she lets him know that.
Irresistible Attitude #3: “I wouldn’t keep a man from doing the healthy,
personal things he enjoys, or let my own fears or limitations stand in
his way.”
She knows that her man is an adult who has the right and freedom to make
his own choices — and the more she tries to restrict him, the less he’s
going to feel open, free and empowered when he’s with her. She respects
his need to pursue his goals and dreams.
If your “love strategy” hasn’t been successful lately, then it’s time to
stop feeling bad about yourself and your love life and start creating the
feelings in a man that will lay the foundation for the relationship you really
want.
Do you know what tugs at a man’s heart EMOTIONALLY, and creates the
emotional attraction that’s much deeper and stronger than just physical
attraction?
