Relationships like marriage, romance or any of similar kinds can be sustained with a happy note if some of the secret rules are followed. As we all know, relationship is completely subjective. And no clear cut rules can be executed on it, yet following certain guidelines may help proceeding happily in a relationship.
Breakup and Divorce are not the Solution
Though people may think divorce or break-up being the best possible way of resolving the issues in relationships, it is the biggest mistake people commit. The reason for increased divorce rate is analyzed as the mentality of people who even before getting into a relationship think divorce as means of solving possible issues in it. Do not even think about a breakup or marriage whenever you confront with minor issues in relationships. Issues are just byproducts of the happiness experienced in the relationships.
No Perfect Relationships, but Perfect Situations
No relationship, as a whole, is destined to be jovial and satisfying. There can be moments of happiness and moments of struggles. The couple who learns the secrets of balancing both happiness and struggles wins the life and enjoys the best possible relationship and life. When in tension or issues, many people may think that they are fated to fall in to wrong relationship, and at the same time ignore the possible chances of making each moments in life happy by understanding the partner a bit more and adjusting a bit more.
Never be Afraid or Make Him Afraid
Another secret of happy relationship lies in being open and frank with the partner while communicating. An issue, how ignorable it is, when kept in mind for several days, can take forms of anger, frustration, dislike etc., and get expressed in the most undesirable manners. Let the communication between the partners be a frequent element and no one should hold the words when he really wants to talk.
Love Defined is Respect and Care
You can just tell that you love your partner but can never express the love as it is. There is no emotion like love, but it comes as a package which includes, respect, care, share, dedication, forgiveness etc., express the emotions whenever possible to make the other person feel the intensity of your love. Do not be a miser in loving the partner and let your love be unconditional.
Always Support Each Other
Never ever leave your partner unsupported. Whatever be the opinions and ideas, know that you are the only one he can lean for support. When both of you are alone, you can argue among yourself on points you disagree with each one, but in public both of you have only one mind. Holding the hands, especially when he is sad or broken, is helpful to convey you care for the person. Once you have decided to live together, then no questions of separation may arise, even in the opinions.