Statistics show that men usually cheat for two reasons: insecurity and boredom. Most of them want to be adored by their partners. Men have an innate need to feel respected and appreciated by their partners. Of course, there are men who cheat just because they want to experiment or because they look for that tingling sensation to be with someone who considers them attractive. Here are a few ways to keep him from cheating:
1 – Do not over-Accommodate
Being in a relationship should not make you forget about all those things that make you happy. Make sure you don’t lose yourself. If you do, your partner may realize that you are not that person he fell in love with. So make sure you always maintain a healthy sense of self in your relationship.
2 – Do not Be Too Controlling
Just like you, your man needs his freedom. Don’t be too controlling and don’t suffocate him. The stricter you get with all kinds of rules in your relationship, the more he will feel his freedom getting restricted. And he will be tempted to break all those rules just to be able to make his own decisions every once in a while.
3 – Make Him Feel Wanted
Make sure your partner knows that you find him attractive. Show him that as much as you can and make sure he doesn’t feel unappreciated. Show him you still fancy him, even after all this time and keep the spark in your relationship alive.
Let your man have some time to himself every now and then. Because just like you need to recharge your batteries, he wants to do that too. Don’t restrict his freedom and don’t be too clingy. Make sure you don’t monopolize all his time. And let him pursue his hobbies and hang out with his friends when he feels the need to do that.
5 – Be Aware of Your Emotions
Make sure you are always aware of your emotions because women usually can communicate a lot without using any words. If you are feeling sad, angry or frustrated, try to determine the cause of those feelings and don’t let them interfere with your relationship if they have nothing to do with your partner.
6 – Prioritize Your Relationship
Make sure you always prioritize your relationship. Don’t neglect it because you are too busy at work or that you feel overwhelmed by all the responsibilities you have to take care of on a daily basis. Give your relationship the attention it needs to function properly and don’t take it for granted.
7 – Find His Relationship Pattern
Some men just think that it is hard-wired into their genes to have sexual relationships with as many women as possible. If this is your partner, then it won’t probably matter what you do. It takes for him to change his belief system and realize that a healthy relationship needs commitment and mutual respect for it to work.
Dealing with a cheating man is not easy, but there are a lot of things you can do to prevent him from hurting you. Do you know any other ways to keep him from cheating? Please tell us about them in the comments section!